Kamis, 17 Februari 2011

快乐

乐(le) sound like 六(liu) , that's why 6 is a lucky number in China, and its meant to bring your happiness. That's different for another culture. BE HAPPY!

It is hard to be happy in this world when people are trying to upset you. My dad used to tell me, people above you will try to push you down, and people below you will try to pull you down. We have to try to ignore and perceive their sarcastic comments as 'vomits'. People who are mean just lack self-esteem, the more they call you names , " the bigger they see their image or ego growing". It gives them false satisfaction. You know, sometimes people are mean without a reason? I mean, why use your energy on doing something negative, it's better to encourage people than to put them down right? Yeah, maybe you feel in power, but after that you'll kinda feel guilty. If you don't have that feeling, that means you're just so used to it, that you ignore what the little voice in you is trying to say. "Keep your cool!" Also, "Answer those unimportant people diplomatically".There is also a saying that we shouldn't get back on people, but we should do nice things to them. Sort of in a way, I wouldn't do this in truth, but after thinking for awhile, I realized that the more nicer things you do to 'them', the more they get annoyed. They'll wonder, how can you be so forgiving while they are being cruel to you?

Sometimes you also need to speak up for yourself. Don't just keep it to yourself. Find the source of your problem. It usually roots from one person. Talk and confront that person in a nice way and ask them not to bother you. If they persist on doing it, talk to someone who is wiser, like maybe a counselor or your parents. It's never to late to speak up, it's just the matter of when. Don't wait for another day to speak up, do it when the event occurred. Gather up the courage to talk back, it's your right. In overall, keep a calm outer appearance and say it without anger, though sometimes it's necessary.

Throughout the problems we have to know that many things in our lives happen for a reason. Today, I read a short text about being in a car wash. So, this guy talks about his experience using it and how he was irrational to think that the water would seep in his car. After the car wash, his car was squeaky clean. He compares this to the storms in our lives. And that we will come out on the other side. Seeing it from a Christian point of view, he says that during that time he knows that God will be with him through it.

-When you pass through waters,I will be with you-(Isaiah 43:1-13)

However, some people prefer to think that life is a cycle and it will always go round and round. We will pass through the happiness and the sadness and the difficulty and ease all in a wheel. You can think it that way too. Always remember that throughout the process, after every event, we will eventually learn something and grow from the experience we gain.

 Anything to add?


Ines says:
REALLY NICE BLOG, I LOVE ALL THE WORDS :)

Selasa, 15 Februari 2011

-STARBUCKS-

Most of us are familiar with this coffee brand franchise. It was opened in 1971; the name was inspired by Moby Dick. Their mission: to inspire and nurture the human spirit – one person, one cup and one neighborhood at a time. It specializes in different coffees from around the world. 


These are the logos:

















Connection, coffee, and community, that was the aim of Starbucks. My favourite drink was green tea frappucino, then it changed to green tea latte, now I like vanilla cream frappucino ( suggested by a friend). The brownies and sandwich there is also good.

What makes Starbucks so popular unlike other coffee shops? I guess it's the environment and comfortable sofas. In addition, there are different types of coffee bean used to make the drinks. The food was also made from fresh ingredients. Though sometimes they couldn't whip up a perfect whip cream, I admit that Starbucks is a good hang out place to "chillax"= chill and relax ( gotten from an episode in 'Glee'). Noted, there is also free Wi-fi connection.

I still don't understand why they use a mermaid for a logo. What does that mean? It does not really show about seafaring. More like, beautiful exotic thing. It does not connect to their aim. Though I like the second design, I don't agree for the third one to be used in 2011. I mean, the second one is a classic and is liked by many peers.

Overall, Starbucks is a good example of how a business can expand when someone invests in it and explore its plus points. I believe that Starbucks will continue on growing and be successful in creating new products. That's the thing I want to talk about! Putting your heart into some work, it will always come out satisfying. It doesn't matter if its perfect, what matters is that you did your best, that's what counts.

Jumat, 11 Februari 2011

Thomas Alfa Edison, happy birthday!

A little background info on Thomas. He was born on February 11, 1847 and died on October 18,1931. He is famous for making the light bulb happen. Without him we would suffer nowadays. How can we live without light? I mean how to shower at night, eat, or even study? How could he do that? So,he decided when he was young to study hard, he said :" My mother was the making of me. She was so true, so sure of me; and I felt that I had something to live for,someone I must not disappoint."(Wikipedia,2011) Now, don't get me wrong. He was a smart guy, but his mind wandered somewhere else during school. One of his famous quotes , and I bet you guys have already know this. Wait..wait..wait for it ( Barney's line in 'How I met your mother'), the quote says, "Genius is one percent inspiration, ninety-nine percent perspiration." That is so widely known. I don't know if this quote is actually true, because I haven't thoroughly experienced it. Maybe you guys can share it here in my blog?



I mean it's hard to be hardworking and diligent nowadays, with all the distractions, like: facebook, handphones, laptop, msn messenger, twitter. How can we do school work and study? Even some of the teachers in my IB school say later in year 11 , you have to at least study 3 hours a day. I mean let's be reasonable. What if I have a lot of activities? Like private lessons or gym or extracurricular activities and that my journey home would take for instance, 1 hour? Maybe, what the teacher's are saying is the standard for everyone. Maybe we can be creative and find a different way to get our work done. For me, I have a resolution for this year to review my schoolwork everyday after school for about 30 minutes, that's reasonable right? Or some, that are capable can just listen to the teachers at school? And, that's just enough for them. Or listening to music while doing your homework? You know what, at first, you'll feel lazy, but as you go on, and get it done, there will be this sense of satisfaction. I want to try hard and get good marks now. I want to be diligent.haahaha. I feel that some of my friends in the old school are busy and meticulous, I feel challenged. But in truth, I want to do it for myself, for the benefit of me.

Kamis, 10 Februari 2011

TI-84+

Math class was fun. Mr. Mano is fun. The classmates are fun.

Notice that I wrote fun 3x? Its a technique in English called repetition, it is used to emphasize the main point.
FUN.
Life can be fun if you make it.
That's my thinking.
Don't you agree?
Life can "s**k" if you make it be, change it, make it colourful!
Imagine a canvas , an empty one. Paint it , paint it, with events in your life: sadness, anger, envy , jealousy, happiness, love, hate. All of that will be a rainbow that is a part of your life.
Love everything in life, whether bad or good, cause in the end it will turn into a perfect puzzle.

Bandaid-Pixie Lott

Mm hm da da da da da da da
When I met you
I really didn't like you
First impression was that you were somebody who
Walked right by when I waved at you and say 'Hi'
But they say
Bad beginnings make happy endings
And now that I know you I begin to understands things
Turn around a hundred and eighty degrees
I found my missing piece

There something 'bout you
That's like the sun
You warm up my heart, when I come undone
You're like my soul mate
And on those days,
When I hurt
When I break
Mhm
You are my band aid You are, you are
When I hurt
When I break
You are You are, you are
When I hurt
When I break
You are

When I get caught in the rain
And it feels like
There is no one in the world who understands my
Complications that I face everyday
As I talk it through with you
No matter how I try to hide
Just see straight from my disguise
You know how to fix me
You are my therapy
Baby oh

There something 'bout you
That'€™s like the sun
You warm up my heart when I come undone
You like my soul mate
And all those things
When I hurt
When I break
Mhm
You are my band aid You are, you are
When I hurt
When I break

You are You are, you are
When I hurt
When I break
You are

Isn't it funny how these things get turned around?
Just when I thought I knew you
You prove me wrong
I used to hate the things you love
And love the things you hate

And now I like it
I like it
I like it
Now I la la la like it
I like it
I like it
Now I la la la like it
I like it
I like it

There something 'bout you
That's like the sun
You warm up my heart when I come undone
You like my soul mate
And all those things
When I hurt
When I break
Mhm
You are my band aid You are, you are
When I hurt
When I break
You are You are, you are
When I hurt
When I break
You are

And now I like it
I like it
I like it
Now I la la la like it
I like it
I like it
Now I la la la like it
I like it
Lalalalalala I like it
I lalala like it

More lyrics: http://www.lyricsmode.com/lyrics/p/pixie_lott/#share

Selasa, 08 Februari 2011

Boys or Chocolates?

Nahyeon says:"I love you"
Guy:"Me too..
Nahyeon:"But.. I love chocolate more"
Guy:"What the?"
the end.

"Late night Kapal Api"

I bet when you guys read this , you would wonder, what is "Kapal Api"? So, Kapal Api is a coffee first established in 1927, Surabaya by Go Soe Loet. At first, this coffee did not have a brand or logo, but it then was named steam ship or "Kapal Api" which at that time symbolizes luxury. To be honest, I have not even tried this coffee, Nescafe yes , but not this one. Its motto is "Jelas lebih Enak", which means much more delicious. Actually, in this writing I'm not going to talk about the coffee, but about the late night that follows it. I'm not a coffee drinker, but I guess I'll say my conscious is part of the coffee that sometimes keeps me awake at night. You know that feeling when you just don't feel tired but you know you have to sleep? Or that you feel tired but you just don't want to sleep? Yeah, it happens.

 



What will accompany you except a cup of coffee? What if everyone's asleep already, and you are just there,in your room, either surfing or reading a book,but you're wide awake. It kind of feels lonely. Yes, the feeling of loneliness. I don't get it, why do people have to have it? What's the use of being lonely? It doesn't help you nor it is a positive thing. It just is a feeling that is uncomfortable in your chest. Sort of, or just that emptiness you feel in a milisecond. I don't know, I guess I'm just blabbering about. I know that I can sleep if I just close my eyes and drowse or something, but it's like one certain day where you don't feel like sleeping, yet.  They say human needs to have at least 6 hours of sleep. I guess it's true; when you wake up with less than that, your eyes will have bags under it. You'll get dizzy and exhausted, with muscle pains everywhere, I experienced that. It's not a good feeling either, which is being lonely and having little sleep. I guess people will experience that in a certain time of their life. 


Back to the laptop->
To add, you guys know that coffee makes you awake right ? It can be positive if we need to do some important stuff, but it can be negative because it's not good for your health. Let's take the real context into a different perspective. You know, coffee's good when it's hot right? It gives out the steam. When we're feeling lonely, and we drink and breathe the steam from the coffee, we get a warm feeling that extinguishes the negative feeling. It's a certain nice, fuzzy , ticklish sentiment your heart gets. Yeah, I guess I get it now. We need to feel lonely because without loneliness, we would think that we wouldn't need anyone to share their compassion and care towards us because we don't have the loneliness. However, if we have it, we would always want someone to be there for us, to fill the gap in our heart that will always emerge out of nowhere. Yeah, that's right. Everything is made for a reason. So, I guess loneliness has its uses also. To stop blabbering, I guess it's time to call it the tops for today. I have a speech about a "Cold Mountain" scene where Sally Swanger is tortured, if you get what I mean.


Goodnite.Sleeptite.Don't let the bedbugs bite.
Always and will be,
Bryna

"May the Force Be with You"

Today, I had Physics Class with Mr. J. He brought Yoda in, so you know what that means right? Yoda talks Force,so we are talking about that. We also learned about weight and mass. Did you know that what we say in our daily life like ,"My weight is 58 kg", is actually wrong. Mass has a unit of kg, and weight is gravitational force (9.8gm/s2) x our mass , that will result in Newton. Anyways, back to Force. I would like to talk about Force, there are a lot of forces, but let's not talk about it in the Physics form.(haha). For me, I like to think about positive force. You know what I mean by positive right? Happy go lucky, optimistic, and all the good things mixed in it. I looked up a quote from my fave Indo magazine called GoGirl! (73/Februari 2011/Stars Issue), so here it goes:

"Nothing is impossible, the word itself says 'I'm possible' !"
-Audrey Hepburn

Get it? So honeys, hahaha, wrong grammar there, I mean for me, as the going gets tough, I'll always try to be happy (maybe not all the time depending on the circumstances). Sometimes I get that it is hard to be blissful and grateful. But as they say, don't look at the dark side of life. Whenever there is darkness, there will also be light right?

Dang, I'm trying to look and search the magazine or some sort of what would make teenagers happy. I'm not trying to teach you guys, but I felt that I need to share. I know being in the dumps s-u-c-k, and it's really hard to get up, believe me. Even magazines don't help. It all comes from yourself. Whether you want to just stay in that deep stink hole or get up for a better , nicer smelling place. Force, yeah, back to force. Force, you have to force yourself to be happy again when you're not, because if you stay sad for too long, it is really difficult to be in your starting position. I know forcing is unnatural, but as we keep on doing it continuosly, our genuine smile will come up. Trust me.

You may or may not want to ask me this question, depending on  your mood. How do I make myself happy? I guess, for me is having a laugh at something hilarious my friends did, or just google "funny pictures", or watch a comedy , I suggest "Green Hornet" for now or "White Chicks"; tv sitcoms such as "How I met your mother" and eating healthy, duh.

So, for starters, I found these two appetizers for you guys. Bon Apetite!

Senin, 07 Februari 2011

first entry(yeay)!

Welcome to my blog! This is not my first time though, but now I feel that I'm going to share and write a lot in this blog. So, yeah, my name's Bryna Budiman, that's about it. I'm just a girl like any other. I love Sour Sally ( a yogurt place in Jakarta), ice cream ( though I can't have it now, wait until I lose weight, haha), talking to friends, listening to music, and other random things people like to do. I like Justin Bieber's song (right now), SheilaOn7 (Indonesian band;look it up,they're good), RnB, korean bands, and so much more. I'm a girl who likes a good laugh and smile. I'm also just another ordinary person who wants a lot of things, but don't have the time to do it. Basically, I was just bored and decided to make this blog. So, I say, hope this blog will have loads fun for you to look at . Toodles! :)